So you singles-in-love-therefore-brokenhearted, here are some ways to mend your achy-breaky heart

1) BAWL -Inevitably, this must be quite instinctive for those suffering with broken hearts. Therefore, this is chicken. If you start crying, don't let up until you finally have the resolve to accept your fate. Meanwhile, cry if you must. Though it feels like you're the only one wallowing in tears, cry until your eyes and face are red and swollen or even more, cry until it feels like you're expelling your own lungs. Cry a bucket or even cry an ocean. Crying is like a panacea that can exterminate bad feelings that you cannot verbalize. Make this your fete of tears. "It's your party, so cry if you want to." Even if you don't instantaneously feel good after, the crying makes you feel lighter.
2) GET WASTED.-In other words, don't be guilty of drinking beer, vodka, tequila or any other liquor. Whether you're a lightweight or a heavyweight, it doesn't even matter now. Drink until you loosen up yourself to talk about it (even to yourself) go frenetic about it or just go wild about it. It may be paltry but drinking can act like morphine enough to make you oblivious to that searing ache for a moment. The only catch is, how you deal it the morning after.
3) DANCE WITH YOURSELF- If you find yourself alone in your room, mulling over that damn moron, try stopping these thoughts the moment they get into your mind. Plop a CD on the player or listen to your MP3 player or just flick on the dance station on the radio, and go dance with yourself. Dancing in front of a mirror also helps by chanting, "I am pretty, cute, sweet and smart he is an absolute *sshole to jilt me!" Even if you dance no good, hopping, strutting, gyrating or even pounding on the floor may take off some pain. Just ignore the neighbors downstairs. They're really no help in your predicament.
4) HAVE A PARTY OF YOUR OWN WITH YOU ALONE- Create a party of your own with only you as the guest alone. Get grooving to party music and have some drinks like tequila or vodka and pretend that this bash is in honor for your own sacrifices you did for love. Just don't play music that you both listened to or remind you of him, because it will just move you to wax melancholy. Listen to rock, pop, dance, house or trance instead. Much better than rap, R&B, soul and ballads because they tend to lean more to "lamentations on unrequited love and brokenheartedness". Upbeat, danceable and happy music songs are more effective in pulling you out of depression.
5) TALK IT OUT WITH FRIENDS Nothing is more heartwarming when friends and buddies lend extra ears and even give out sound pieces of mind. A bunch of supportive people who care about you are the best to keep your pain off bay. Pour out all your sentiments. Just stick it out with friends who don't judge nor blame you but are there to console you and cheer you up. Better yet, those friends who can fight for you and defend you are the best. One example is how one friend of mine could b*tch about the girl who snatched my ex- boyfriend or how my friend could say all the things I wanted to say but couldn't, right onto my ex- boyfriend's face. I have a friend who came up to my ex-boyfriend's workplace and said to him, "Ang bagay sa iyo, ibitay ng patiwarik dahil wala kang kwentang tao!"
6) GIMMICK WITH YOUR FRIENDS- In other words, keep your body and mind busy with friends and activities. Spend more time with them just to keep your mind off from thinking how lonely you could be without him (when in reality you are not lonely at all). Paint the town not only with red but with all the colors you love. This way, you can meet more friends or who knows, your next girl or guy.
7) SHOP BOP-Shopping can be therapeutic in fact because you put your emotions on something that is tangible and hence you can utilize and give value on. If you've got the bread, shop without guilt. Or try to treat it as a guilty pleasure instead. If you don't have the money, then window-shop. Make a mental note of what you want to buy the next time. The money that you budget for dates should now be the money you splurge for something you really deserve.
PAMPER YOURSELF- Pampering yourself may be the best since someone treated you badly. It doesn't only mean you deserve something special but also can be some sort of making you feel loved. Who else should love you first? Of course, yourself. And in retaliation, making him drool with a new you can be sweet revenge. Go to a spa have a facial, (the more sophisticated facials are better since they give you instant visible results), get a massage, have a manicure and a pedicure, or just get a new do or dye/lights. One friend of mine was more extravagant; she had dental implants which cost a total of $15,000. It gave her a better smile to flash around. No matter how inexpensive or simple it may be, indulging yourself with vanity is universally ego-boosting.
9) KEEP A JOURNAL-I did this every time a guy disses me. I wrote letters to him daily that I don't really send or mail to. Instead, I tucked these letters in the pages of my Bible. I would write everyday to him about everything I feel and all the questions I wanted to ask .The feelings might never be conveyed to him and the questions might never be answered, but I felt so much relieved when I wrote those letters. After a week, I reread them and tossed them in the trash. Some people write journals and each day as they recount their emotions and queries candidly with openness. They know they many never be read by anyone else but at least they know someone knows their pain. After a while, they threw their journals into waste. Throwing them means forgetting about them, and stepping to move on forward.
10) PICK ON HIM- This is the most fun part because you can pick on and mock him without feeling neither accountable nor shamefaced. But do this alone or with someone you really trust. Find faults in him as much as you can and have a blast laughing about them. Laugh at the way he stutters, or the way he dresses up. Poke fun at his failing grades since elementary, or have a blast about his acne-stricken face. Measure up with his academic standing against yours or gauge his achievements at work (if there is any at all). Put him on the scales how can he make you better. Weigh him on his assets and liabilities. I am sure breaking your heart is one big loss he terribly ever has. And as clear as ice, he is one dang frigging a-hole who won't give you pain once but twice or thrice in the future.
11) PRAY There is no other greater healing of your pain than coming straight to God in prayer-pouring out your bare soul and supplicating earnestly His power to help you overcome the aches that burden your heart. True, you will never have your guy back or worse, you may not find anyone like him because there is someone better than him. The most important thing, God made you overcome through it. You may feel unloved but God loves you all the more and you may feel that you're the loneliest soul on this planet however, you have a true friend in God. "Come to me all of you who are tired and weary and I will give you rest.For the yoke I will give you is easy and the load I will put on you is light". Take heed for God has prepared greater things for you. You may not know that God is working on the right man for you, but He is. In the meantime, work on yourself too, because in God's own time, he will let you meet each other and let you both together for the rest of your lives.

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